Romanticizing Breadcrumbs and the grey area.

Attention doesn’t mean intention.

These days connections are meaningless because there’s no true intention.

Liking someone energy, vibe and idealizing someone based off of their social media presence was never enough.

Surface level.

Most times, people don’t want anything but temporary satisfaction for a moment.

It was always just a moment in time.

breadcrumbs,

doing just enough to keep the connection alive enough to not hurt feelings or not take accountability or responsibility.

breadcrumbs can look like consistently inconsistent.

The grey area,

friends but hint at more than friends but also not acknowledging a future, a relationship or a lot of hypothetical speaking. Nothing feels grounded.

The grey area, often feels confusing.

If someone is intentional, you will never feel confused.

Romanticizing it, allowing these experiences to flow into your inner world because you like someone so much.

We love to chase what doesn’t feel settled or secure.

Our nervous system needs it.

The hit. The validation. The rush.

and once you crash you realize this experience is damaging to your heart.

breathe. Cry. Refocus. Redirect you energy back to self.

People will chase you, just to see you fall.

People will always love your energy, just to use it as an experience or an experiment.

The internet and the access is scary.

actually being human, showing interest, showing you truly care is the new cringe.

Thats okay.

After everything I’ve personally been through I know my heart will remain full.

Make sure you don’t breadcrumb yourself.